Are u dating a sociopath
I’ve realized from some of my relationship experiences that is quite possible to date someone sociopathic or with sociopathic tendencies.It is nothing like the movies and “NCIS” episodes, so I share some examples of what “real life” sociopathic behavior can look like.The following list is an attempt to outline the characteristics of ‘The Loser’ and provide a manner in which women and men can identify potentially damaging relationships before they are themselves severely damaged emotionally or even physically.” () 1. “If he or she hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or breaks your personal property even once, drop them,” Carver advises.As we’ve seen, Drew Peterson escalated the abuse of his partners.He was funny and willing to play into the fantasy of Prince Charming and do superficial things that had no real cost to him. Emotional apathy, lack of shame: The biggest red flag that is easy to subconsciously turn a blind eye to is apathy.Whenever a sociopath’s behavior causes someone immense pain or difficulty, he will find ways to vilify the “other” party and rationalize or revise the situational story to gain empathy.He began with criticism, went on to name-calling and moved on to physical violence and (probably) murder. “The Loser,” Carver notes, “has very shallow emotions and connections with others.
Carver begins by defining “the Loser”: “‘The Loser’ is a type of partner that creates much social, emotional and psychological damage in a relationship…They don’t feel bad after an argument; they don’t “do” remorse. Their focus is very good, and if they want you, they’re totally focused on you. Wait until they’re bored with you — their attitude will change very quickly. They swear how ‘bad’ that person is, how useless they are and why they‘re to blame.It’s like they have a few key “tools” missing from the emotional toolbox the rest of us have. They seem to make a lot of mistakes As you get to know them, you notice they make a lot of mistakes, and they don’t seem to learn from these. They seem exciting Sociopaths often take risks, sometimes it seems like they’re exercising bad judgement. It’s easy to get drawn into the excitement and buzz they can generate.has a long, detailed lists of sociopathic traits and below I list the ones I have personally dealt with in my past.Superficial charm: I fell in love with a sociopath. I fell for his good looks, sexuality, and seemingly strong self-confidence.